Jerry Falwell Jr.’s Wife Becki Tilley: Truth About Her Affair, Controversy, & More

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Jerry Falwell Jr.’s Wife Becki Tilley: Truth About Her Affair, Controversy, & More
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Becki Tilley, also known as the first lady of Liberty College, is famous as Jerry Falwell Jr.’s wife. The couple has been in a marital relationship for more than three decades.

Becki’s husband Jerry Falwell Jr. was a prominent name in the Evangelical Christian community. He and his wife came into severe controversy when a man revealed he had an affair with Becki.

Besides, there are a lot of unheard facts about Becki Tilley Falwell that you oughta know. So let’s get right into it!

Becki Tilley Early Life: Her Wiki

Becki Tilley Falwell was born on February 23rd, 1967, in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. She is the daughter of Tom Tilley and Iris Tilley. Her parents brought her to a Christian household.

Belonging to Caucasian ethnicity, Becki has American nationality. Talking about her siblings, well, she has multiple sisters, all of whom are married.

Becki Tilley Parents
Becki with her parents.

Becki’s father Tom. back in 2015, was sentenced to 32-months in prison after he was convicted of tax fraud. The court ordered Becki to return $7 million in restitution to the IRS.

Moreover, back in January of 2021, her father was admitted into the hospital for congestive heart failure on top of pneumonia.

Her Education

After finishing up her high school at a local school, she joined the University of Virginia, the same college as her husband.

Becki Tilley and Jerry Falwell Jr. Relationship

When did they meet?

The lovebirds first met back when Becki was 13 while Jerry was 18. The couple didn’t start dating until both of them reconnected again at the University of Virginia.

Becki had just joined the University and Jerry was already a second-year law student. Although Becki and Jerry never said how they reconnected after such a big gap, Jerry mentioned in his book Falwell Inc. that he knew Becki was looking for an M-R-S degree.

During the beginning of their relationship, the couple used to go out on horseback riding dates around Candler’s Mountain.

Their Marriage

Marriage is something that is taken with proper consideration. After dating for a couple of years, the pair decided to marry. They exchanged vows on October 3rd, 1987 after Jerry graduated college. They married in the presence of their friends and family.

The twosome has been married for more than three decades. Becki usually shares a lot of photos of the couples on her Instagram account.

How many children does the couple share?

From their relationship, the duo shares three beautiful children, two sons, and a daughter. Their eldest son Trey Falwell was born on July 27th, 2019. He worked as the operation’s vice president at Liberty University where he used to earn $234,310.

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Becki with her oldest son Trey,

He resigned from his position of VP after all the drama surrounding his mother and father. Trey is a married man and is the father of one child.

Becki Tilley Daughter Caroline
Becki with her daughter Caroline.

In addition to Trey, Becki and Jerry share another son named, Charles Wesley Falwell. He tends to keep a low profile, unlike his siblings. According to his Instagram account, he currently works as a supervisor at LU Fabrication. He is also a father of one child whom he shares with his wife.

Lastly, they have one daughter named Caroline Falwell. She was born on August 27th, 2000.

Becki Tilley Controversy: She had a long-term affair with a Pool boy and Jerry knew about the affair

Whenever we hear the term extra-marital affair we automatically assume it means one partner, without the knowledge of the other, is having an affair with a third party. However, the case is rather different here!

Becki was involved in an affair with a pool boy and her husband Jerry knew about it, in fact, he enjoyed their affair. In August of 2020, a guy named Giancarlo Granda confessed to Reuters he had a sexual relationship with Becki.

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Becki had an affair with Granda for a long time.

According to Granda, he first met Becki at the age of 20 back in 2012. In March of 2012, he was working at Fontainebleu Miami Beach Hotel as a pool boy when a mature-looking Becki approached him.

From the get-go, Becki and Granda developed an intimate relationship. Throughout their relationship, their encounters used to happen a number of times in a year and took place in different hotels all around Miami and New York and even at the Falwell’s residence in Virginia.

The most shocking part of their affair is the fact that Jerry Falwell Jr. used to look on as his wife was having sex with Granda.

Jerry had to resign as President of Liberty College after the affair got out

Before the controversy came out in the open, Jerry was this inspirational figure amongst the evangelical community. He was one of those people who preached pre-marital sex and extra-marital affair as a sin and now here we are.

One can only imagine the sheer amount of shame and embarrassment Jerry and his wife must have felt. After the incident, Jerry subsequently resigned from his position as President.

Becki had another affair with a Liberty College student

Around the same time the bombshell revelation about Becki’s sexual encounter with the pool boy came, another revelation added more fuel to the fire.

In an exclusive interview with Politico, a former student at the college revealed how the former University’s president jumped into the bed with him and performed oral sex on him. According to the student, the encounter went down in 2008 when he stayed at Falwell’s residence after band practice with the eldest son of the couple, Trey.

Though at the time the student went along with Becki, he didn’t want to continue it. However, Becki pursued him constantly and used to message him a lot of which the student even shared a lot of screenshots to Politico.

The student said, “She was the aggressor.”

Upon finding out about Becki’s sexual encounters one can find it quite hard to believe how is Jerry Falwell still with this lady but given how he used to watch her have sex with the Granda says a lot about their relationship.


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